"I was asked, 'Some people shun all company and always want to be alone; their peace depends on it, and on being in church. Was that the best thing?' And I said, 'No!' Now I see why. He who is in a right state, is always in a right state wherever he is, and with everybody. But if a man is in a wrong state, he is so everywhere and with anybody."
– Meister Eckhart, Quoted in Dangerous Mystic
The "right state," according to Eckhart, is a state of detachment from our own self-will.
"In true obedience there should be no trace of 'I want so-and-so,' or 'this and that,' but a going out of your own."
If a man is in the right state, he is at peace in any situation, at any place, with anyone. If he is in the wrong state, it doesn't matter where he is or who he is with. Internal state trumps external circumstances.